Sometimes when I think my life is being unjust to me, God shows a sign to let me know that he sees me through a corner of his eyes if not directly and fully. Every time when I am down something good happens and it brings a ray of hope and then I think life is not as bad as I think it is to be.
I may sound silly if I say one such issue is the tug of war between me and my husband regarding our PC. He is always busy working on it and when I feel like typing up something it’s engaged. For the past few weeks I have been feeling very low about this situation and today morning I was on the verge of asking him to buy me another PC and it would have sounded childish. But then his head office rang him up and told him that they have decided to give him a laptop as a token of appreciation of his good work. Isn’t it a good sign for me? I think yes it is good.
The above said instance may be a small one. But these sorts of solutions come up to almost all of my problems irrespective of the intensity of the issues. Dear friend, if you are person who knows me personally and well enough to understand me, you may think I am in a good mood today. Yes, I am and I hate to be in a bad mood on any given day.
Who doesn’t have problems in their lives? It’s just that nobody has the time to raise their heads from their own problems, so that they can look around to see what others are going through. Some does not want to see their surroundings, to keep themselves as the centre of their own worlds. But through the different experiences in my life I have learnt to live my life to the fullest, come what may.
A year back I was worried like hell when my husband had a lymph node infection. He had to take medicines for about nine months before he was hundred percent cured. But now I know someone my age whose husband has been diagnosed with sarcoma in the lungs. So I am lucky, am I not? This is just one instance. I can find similar comparisons for each problem of mine.
So I just want everyone to raise their heads and look around. Then only we can view our problems in a wider perspective and that will help us to realize that the solutions to all our problems lie within ourselves and we just need to identify them and many a times we may even be able to help others too.
4 comments:
very true. its a very helpful way of looking at life,only thing is its hard to stick to it for long.
Dear Mily,what u said is very true..I too ve felt the same many times..ya they too r similarly small incidents..which one may not feel like telling anybody..like gettng a chance not to engage a class when u rnt prepared..or an unexpectd chance to sit alone..etc etc..so I can understand u very well..the too tiny pleasures..and joys brought in by an unexpected event..ur language is so cool yaar..carry on..
Hi M, I think everybody in the world has, at some point, felt like the way you did. Fact is,even if we have these moments of recognition(that there might actually be a silver lining to the dark clouds),the next time something bad happens,we again blame life, god, circumstances and what not. But at least, this momentary recognition of the positive aspects of life can be refreshing!
Beee +ve!!
so young and so wise?! yes. life is beautiful-too beautiful to be confined to our own world.
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